Because of the church tradition that taught me that as long as I serve the Lord and His church devotedly, I don’t need to care for (or sacrifice for) my family ...

Isn't it true that like the Pharisees and scribes who taught that if someone claims to have given to God what should have been given to their parents, they don't need to honor their parents (Matthew 15:5-7, Korean Modern Bible), we have made God's word of no effect due to the church tradition that taught that as long as we serve the Lord and His church devotedly, we don't have to care for (or sacrifice for) our family?"