You must reconcile before you die.

At the funeral, I saw that the bereaved families were not at peace.

I've mostly seen children quarreling at the funeral of one of their parents.

I don't know what to say, but it wasn’t good example.  It was a sad sight.

On the other hand, before leaving this world,

Another man contacted each person whom he had a bad relationship with,

Asked for forgiveness and reconciled before leaving.  It was beautiful.

But the sad thing is that at his funeral,

One of his brothers told his nephew to remove the mourners' flower from the funeral home.

Although he who left reconciled with everyone before he died, it seems that one of his brothers didn’t.

To die well, and to give glory to God and to give grace to all mourners, and have a memorable funeral service,

We should learn the lesson from Romans 12:18 –

“If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”