The parents who give something unfamiliar to their child?
Although King Saul clothed David with his armor,
David took them off because he wasn’t used to them (1 Sam. 17:38-39).
King Saul’s son Jonathan also gave his robe along with his tunic to David (18:4).
The reason is because Jonathan loved David as himself (v. 1).
In love, the parents can give something to their child that the child isn’t use to it.
That’s proof that the parents don’t know their child
and they don’t love the child in his perspective but their own perspective.
The parents should love their child as Jonathan loved David.