Looking at the loved one suffering  ...

Although when I see a loved one suffering

My heart hurts and teas come out

I can go to Dad Father God and cry out to Him in tears.

Then God helps us to acknowledge God’s sovereignty

That His sovereign will is good, pleasing and perfect (Rom. 12:2)

And that He will cause all things to work together for good to us who love God (8:28).

In the end, God makes us to confess that ‘God is good, all the time’ (Ps. 43:4).