Conversation with wife

‘When we rush to fix the spouse's view, we give the impression that there is more to right and wrong than to agree with the suffering of the spouse.’

When I talk to my wife, I need to relax and listen (instead of being quick to suggest a solution to her).

I should sympathize with your wife’s feelings first (I need to listen to her in her position and agree with her pain).

Then, I should share the Word of God that the Holy Spirit reminds me (I should try to show her God's perspective)

Conversation with husband

‘When a husband is silent, his wife’s desire to share and confirm with him will increase.  And the more the wife demands, the more husbands will not talk.’

The wife should respect the silence of her husband.

If she keeps on trying to satisfy her selfish desire to share and confirm with him,

then it will make her husband to be more silent.

Silence is also his way of communicating.

Therefore, the wife shouldn’t think and doubt that his silence means ‘He doesn’t’ love me’.

The wife should learn her husband silent conversation method.