The difference of the couple

A woman wants a man whom she loves to share his heavy burden with her.

The reason is because she loves him and wants to participate in his pain.

A man doesn’t want to share his pain that he is going through with a woman whom he loves.

The reason is that he doesn’t want to put heavy burden on her because he loves her.

When this man and this woman meet and married and become one body,

they fight because of their differences.  Who is right?

It seems that God wants them bear each other's burdens as the woman thinks.

At the same time, it seems that God doesn’t want them to bear the burdens each other like the man thinks.

What does the couple suppose to do?

The husband needs to learn the way the woman loves.

In other words, he needs to share his heavy burden with his wife and share his pains with her.

The wife needs to learn the way the man loves.

In other words, when she finds out that her beloved husband has a heavy burden,

it is necessary for her to respect his decision not to share that burden with her,

knowing that it is because he loves her.