The Importance of Being

 The first thing men and women who think about marriage is to cultivate their own existence. Only then can we see the other person's presence (e.g. a person) rather than the outward deed. Nurturing one's existence must continue after marriage. Before marriage, where there are not many conflicts, the existence of each other is hidden. However, when we live together, we are exposed to numerous conflicts and each other's appearances are revealed one by one. So you can see each other's existence better. If we are prepared to marry and focus on being like each other and becoming like Jesus, we can see how God's grace can help sinners get married.

            Our Christian presence cannot be separated from God, who is love. Only when we practice the commandments of Jesus, the love of God and the love of our neighbors, can our beings feel joy and happiness. But every packed act that comes from a lack of being is nothing more than a rocking foundation. We must take seriously the importance of being. In my marriage, I must act to my partner in the same way he does to me in finding and becoming like Him.